Nathan's funeral

Nathan's funeral service will be held at Bream Bay Assembly of God, 223 Marsden Point Road, Ruakaka, at 1pm on Friday 2nd November. Nathan will be buried at Waipu following the service.

All communication to 15 Marsh Road, Ruakaka.

Snail Mail Address

The address for all snail mail etc to the Millar family is 15 Marsh Road, Ruakaka, 0116, Northland, New Zealand.

Funeral

The funeral will be on Friday at Ruakaka. More details to come...

Goodbye Nathan

At 1.40pm (EST) Nathan slipped peacefully away to heaven. Jill and Jim were with him when he went. Jill was talking to him about going to a better place as he took his final breath. We miss him already but we are so grateful that he didn't suffer and that we had some wonderful time with him in the last few weeks, including a very memorable wedding and lots of laughs and love.

We thank you all for your support and love. It has made this difficult time more bearable.

We will be in contact with the funeral details in the next couple of days. It will be in Ruakaka.

A Letter From Patrice

Dear Nathan,
I met you when you were a baby. One day a 'strange' woman (your mum!) asked me if I would like to stay with your family in Gympie. You have had me hanging around ever since. I remeber buying you Klicky toys for your birthday and Christmas to add to your collection. The hard part was tidying them up after you.

I remeber too that sometimes you would go missing. We would find you having a cup of tea and biscuits with the lovely old couple next door. Mum said that's where you probably learned your good manners.

Another memory of you is that you enjoyed Dad giving you rides on the
ex-Postie's motorbike around the back yard in Townsville.

I love you Nathan and I will always hold you close to my heart.

Love from your Foster Sister,

Patrice.

Comments & some Info

Here are all of the comments people have made since the wedding. I have been busy with work and other things but the DVD is nearly sorted. The DVD's have been donated so all anyone will have to worry about is postage costs. If you please send me an email to admin@mycomfortcandles.com with your details, we can arrange for you to get a copy.



Shannon said...
Congratulations Nate & Jill!! xoxoxo
October 24, 2007 6:17 AM

sam stevens said...
hey nate and jill contrats will have a drink for you tonight. keep going strong man love you heaps man.
October 24, 2007 11:40 AM

Anonymous said...
Hi and congratulations from Timaru. Great news Nate and Jill. We have just learned of the wedding and this site today. Our hearts go out to you people. Ive just Phoned Nana who is away in kaikoura Jill, she sends her love and is very pleased. This site is a good idea Jim, as now its not "away over there".Be brave you two. Your cousins and auntys and uncles are thinking and praying for you.Hope all goes well.Uncle Ken and Shirley Osborne and Jo, Jim, Rose, Lewis, Nana.And passed on love from Diana and her lot, Janice and hers, Mark and his.
October 24, 2007 6:53 PM

Anonymous said...
Congratulations Jill and Nathan you are both very strong and I can see how much love you have for each other. Even though we cant be there this site has made me feel I am there every step of the way, and I do my check in daily. Uncle Jim, Aunty Carol, and all the family, I love you all lots and am praying for you all daily, let me know if there is anything I can do for you over here. Lots of love... Paula (Devine), Hemi, Tahlya, Jaydaci and Shavaani. xoxoxo
October 25, 2007 8:25 AM

Anonymous said...
Congratulations Nate and Jill! Lots of Love Tristan Crook xxxxxx
October 26, 2007 3:10 PM

Anonymous said...
Wow, What an amazing love story, and thankyou for sharing it with all of us.This site is a very powerful testimony to the power and love of God. love and best wishes from Gary and Maree Eggers
October 26, 2007 5:35 PM

yes we must say it was the most romantic and lovely wedding we have ever been a part of .... we are so thrilled for you guys !!!! we love you heaps and heaps .... yes we would love a dvd with the wedding and its preparation !! It would be a privledge to own such a dvd... all our love and warmest wishes hoping your very first day as a married couple, mr and mrs is a wonderful and happy one !!! we miss you both heaps and heaps and are thinking of you lots xoxoxoxox Cant wait to see the beautiful photos !!!
October 24, 2007 9:51 AM

Neil said...
The most beautiful wedding I have ever attended, I feel so priveleged to have been invited and share your day with you both. I would love a copy of the dvd and photos. Congratulations again to both of you. Neil
October 24, 2007 11:42 AM

Mandy said...
I would like to Thank everyone who were able to come to the Osborne and Millar wedding. The evening was perfect and I have never seen my sister so happy in all the years I have known her. This was her specail wedding day and everyone made it possible for her, most of all Nate, you were wonderful, hansom and so strong. Thank you Nate for being you, you made this day possible. I don't need to say welcome to the family because you have always been family in our eyes. xx
October 24, 2007 12:43 PM

Anonymous said...
Thank you for sharing this wonderful,happy/sad , celebration of your Wedding, the photos are irreplaceable, treasured memories of a wonderful union. Congratulations to you both and to all the Family for being there and beiong so strong.All our Love
October 25, 2007 12:25 PM

Anonymous said...
Hi Nathan&Jill, Uncle Jim ,Aunty Carol,Damon,Mirelle and Aaron,What a beautiful sight seeing you all together celebrating such a special time.A precious memory and gift to hold onto.God bless and may God continue to strenghten you all.All our love Tracy,Justin Elisha,Micah,Gabriel and Elim xx
October 26, 2007 9:38 AM

Anonymous said...
Dear Jill & Nathan,Congratulations on your marriage. I am very proud and priviledged to have you Nathan as a part of my family. God Bless you both, my thoughts and prayers are with you always. LOVE NANNY ( Ngaire Blackburn )xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
October 24, 2007 4:54 PM

Anonymous said...
Hi ALL The Millars!!Congratulations on your marriage, Mr & Mrs Millar!! Would have loved to have been there to have had the privilage of witnessing the magical event! It is one of those life experiences you don't want to miss. My love & support are always with you all.Jodie XXXOOOXXX
October 24, 2007 7:20 PM

Anonymous said...
Wow these are amamzing pictures !! we love you heaps and heaps and thanks so much for sharing with us all !!!! It really looked like it was one the best days of your guys life !!! YOu guys are awesome !!! Love you both heaps,Tarryn,Andy and the girls
October 25, 2007 7:24 AM

Anonymous said...
Thanks for sharing the lovely wedding photos with us - what a special time for you all! We only wish that we could have been there to celebrate with you -Congratulations (again) Nathan and Jill and love to you all xxxx Annette, Peter, chloe & Marlo, Jake
October 25, 2007 10:54 AM

Jeanette said...
Hi Nathan and Jill and all the family over thereNathan you've got a beautiful wife-what a special day. Thanks for sharing the photos with us all. Love and blessings from Kevin and Jeanette
October 25, 2007 12:43 PM

Anonymous said...
My little Mandy Moo and Adam, you are both such beautiful concerned and considerate kids. Jill couldnt have a better little sis Moo, she is so proud of you,your her little rock and so very much treasureed and loved by us both.Adam, you have put mega hours, thought and feeling into the website for Jill and Nate and it will obviously be treasured by us all for always, you also are so appreciated in our little famliy, look after Moo.Mandy, Adam, Damon,Aaron, Mirelle, you all have so much in common with Jill and Nate STRENGHT AND LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER, you are all kids to be greatly admired and trasured.Mandy,Nate has always been another big brother to you, and you are so lucky to have had Nate to look out for you and have all your special close times together, he will always be along side Andrew as your awesome brother.Jill wouldnt have been so strong if you hadnt have been right beside her,when im so far away its great knowing that you are there to hold Jill and Nate for me. Heaps of hugs to you and Adam... you are so treasured, love Mum xoxoxoxox
October 25, 2007 6:40 PM

Anonymous said...
Hi Everyone,The photo's of the wedding are great!!Thinking of you all tonight.Adam you are doing a awesome job with this website and just want to let you know how much we (Uncle Jim's family) appreciate it!!We would love a copy of the DVD you have made of the wedding ceremony. Let us know what contact details you need and we will get them to you,it will be a privilage to have a copy.All Our LoveJodie & Family XXOOXX
October 25, 2007 7:55 PM

Beck Crook said...
Hi Nate & Jill, the wedding photos are awesome thanks for sharing them. you only need to look at the photos to see how much you both love one another. They are inspirational!! I hope you first couple of days of marraige have been wonderful ones!! Thinking of you all over there. Lots of love Becks and Family xxooxx
October 26, 2007 6:50 AM

Anonymous said...
WhoHa well done guys, Congratulations on the big day. All the best from Luke, Nat Neil and Cherie Dixon.
October 26, 2007 3:01 PM

Friday Night With Nathan

This afternoon Damon flew back to NZ where his wife Laura has been holding the fort. He had to say goodbye to Nathan, which we all found extremely difficult. As Damon held Nathan's hand and leaned over to give Nathan a kiss, Nathan reached up and gave Damon a big hug! They both showed great love and great courage. Over the past 3 weeks they were able to say all the things they wanted to say to each other. They are both comforted by the knowledge that they will meet again.

Nathan continues to show great courage and strength every day. This morning Jim told Nathan that he was taking Damon to Brisbane to catch his flight. Nathan replied, "It'll be good for you too." This afternoon he woke up, looked around and said, "I thought I'd be in Heaven by now." He even got out of bed today and walked to the bathroom to enjoy a shower.

Each day is different, and we are thankful for every one of them. Nathan continues to rest comfortably and is pain free.

Jim & Carol

Some photos of the big day!

Parents of the groom

Yesterday was one of those special days, when everything seems to fall into place. Once Jim had found a marriage celebrant willing to help us out, the whole day just took off. The celebrant, Lynette McGuire, was such an enthusiastic supporter of what we were planning. She was on the spot immediately and made life so much easier for us. She also arranged for a likeminded photographer, Kerrie Stein, to take photos She had a disc with the photos on at the house next morning before most of us were out of bed. The Court Registrar also responded positively to a phone call from Jim, and signed the documents waiving the one month waiting period.

The ceremony itself was absolutely beautiful. Jill looked gorgeous in a red dress. Nathan made a huge effort to get into his shirt (lovingly ironed by his father!), and jeans. He endured the walk to the verandah and 25 minutes of photographs by the guests and family. Jim conducted the ceremony -it's a huge honour to marry your own children! Later we enjoyed a bbq dinner. Nathan & Jill had always planned on a bbq at their wedding. One (nameless) guest very close to Nathan & Jill, admitted that this was the first time she had cried at a wedding.

Before the ceremony, Nathan asked Jim to read the (brief) ceremony notes to him. He was determined to be aware of and happy with what was going on. He was able to say "Jill, I give you this ring as a symbol of my love.", without prompting. We are so proud of him.

It is so moving to see Nathan and Jill together. When Jill looks at Nathan, you can feel the love surrounding them. When Nathan reaches out for Jill's hand, and replies "Love you too", to her "Love you Babe", it is one of the great love stories being acted out in front of us. We are so blessed that Nathan found some one who loves him so deeply.

Today Nathan is resting comfortably under medication. He remembers yesterdays events, and Jill has shown him the photos.

Damon, Aaron and Mirelle continue be great support for Nathan and Jill. We are so proud of them too.

Thanks for your support,

Jim & Carol

Here comes the Bride . . . & Groom!

Well what a night. Who would have thought that on October 23rd 2007 there would be one of the most romantic, wonderful and fulfilling weddings ever to grace our memories?

The scene was lovely, the sun just setting over the mountains, a light breeze from the river, special guests in person and on speaker phone on about 4 mobile phones. Pretty flowers adorned the balcony, and the Bride & Groom the centre of attention as is due.

The wedding of the year was put together in the shortest amount of time. Nate had been saving a bottle of Moet all this time (5-6yrs) for a "special occassion". Well last night it was popped open and celebrated, not so much because it was a nice French Champagne, but more because of what it represented to Jill & Nate, sorry, Mr & Mrs Millar.

There were photos a plenty and a video of the entire ceremony. I have tried to upload some photos today but there was an error with the site, i will try again later. The video is also too large to upload in its current form. I will be editing it into smaller times and uploading the entire ceremony once thats done. I will also be creating a dvd of the ceremony and setting up of the day. If you would like a copy of the dvd please get in contact with me. It may be a little while in coming but it will be there as soon as i can finish it.

A massive thank you must be given to the celebrant & photographer for their co-ordinated efforts and help. I am sure Jim & Carol will mention more on this later. Also a big thank you to everyone who helped with the day, it was as special as anyone could imagine. As Jim said during his speech, Hollywood could never tell a better love story.

Congratulations to the happy couple. May we all welcome Mr & Mrs Nathan & Jill Millar!

The Latest Comments & Congrats

kellee said...
congrats nathan n jill!! big hugz to the both of u :) xoxoxox
October 23, 2007 2:39 PM

Anonymous said...
Dear Jill & Nate,Thinking of you both at this special time. Congratulations to you both.Really awesome news!Love Aunty Diane,Tim, Sara, Emma, Samantha & David.xoxoxoSpecial congrats, hugs & kisses.Love Nanny xoxoxoxo
October 23, 2007 2:48 PM

Anonymous said...
Nathan and Jilllove to you all, hugs n kissesCONGRATULATIONS nothing is impossible for God, amen to thatx0x0x0x0x0x0Tom n Sharon
October 23, 2007 3:16 PM

Petrina said...
Congratulations! Jill and Nathan. We will be having a toast to you.Love to you All.Petrina, Paul, Emma, Liam & Tyla.XXXX
October 23, 2007 3:20 PM

Beck Crook said...
Congratulations Nathan & Jill....I will be having a nice glass of bubbly at 9pm to celebrate your wedding...All my love Becks & Family xx
October 23, 2007 3:38 PM

Anonymous said...
Dear Jill & Nathan,Our Sincerest Congratulations to you both. The very best news.All our best wishes and love to you on your wedding dayLots of Love,Aunty Judith, Grant & Lauren
October 23, 2007 3:44 PM

Anonymous said...
wow wow wow !! we are soooo happy for you both !!! this has made us so very happy we are beside ourselves - having a celebration drink as we speak love to you both so much love your big brother Andy and your little sister Tarryn :-) xoxoxoxox
October 23, 2007 3:46 PM

Anonymous said...
Hi Guys, Will be thinking of you both at 9pmCongratulations Love Uncle Murray
October 23, 2007 3:58 PM

Anonymous said...
Dear Nathan&JillCongratulations to you bothWill be thinking of youLoads of love Aunty EleanorxxxxxxxxxxxxxLove and best wishes to you both congratulations on your wedding dayNoeline and Tyler xxxxxxxx
October 23, 2007 4:11 PM

Jeanette said...
Congrats Nathan & Jill, awesome stuff!Heaps of love and Blessings to you both!God BlessKev & Jeanette
October 23, 2007 5:58 PM

Clare & Michele said...
CONGRATULATIONS Nate & Jill!! Awesome news! We are so stoked for you both on your very special day.We are thinking of you all lots & lots & will be celebrating over here too...Michele, Clare and Family X0X
October 23, 2007 5:59 PM

The Beehre Branch said...
Congradulations to you both,Even though we cant be with you in person we will be thinking of you at this special time. May love devide your troubles, double your happiness and make your make marriage beautiful.Lots Of Love Aunty Elaine, Jo Jamie, Zhoe and Tim. xxxx
October 23, 2007 6:00 PM

Anonymous said...
CONGRATULATIONS NATHAN AND JILL!!!Awesome news, so happy for you both.I will be having a beer or two? at 9.00pm to celebrate with you!!!!!Love and best wishes,JodieXXOOXX
October 23, 2007 6:03 PM

evie said...
thrilled to pieces ... fantastic news ... congratulations to you both on your wedding day ... its 9.18pm here in NZ ... your married ... love evie houldsworth (mum and dad's friend)
October 23, 2007 6:17 PM

Mark Crook said...
Hi Nathan & Jill...Congrats on your wedding. We are thinking of you all you are always in our hearts. Love Uncle Mark, Heather, Marco, Adrian, Damien & Family
October 23, 2007 6:18 PM

Anonymous said...
WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!The best news ever - Congratulations to you both.Love & Best wishes from ROTORUAXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
October 23, 2007 6:52 PM

Anonymous said...
Congratulations Nate and Jilly. I'm just cracking a xxxx gold right now. It's not champagne but it'll bloody do me!! Best news eva. Pete.
October 23, 2007 6:59 PM

Anonymous said...
Thank you so much for sharing your big day with us on the phone it was awesome to hear you guys exchange vows ... we love you so much and we really felt like we were there it was fabulous !!! Your two are really sucha amazing example of true love .... it really gors to show LOVE is an amazing and precious thing .... we love you all to bits and all our thoughts are with you on the fabulous day !!! you guys are awesome !! Love Tarryn and Andrew Osborne
October 23, 2007 7:36 PM

nan&russell said...
Congradulations Jill & Nathan on your wedding day. Our hearts and thoughts are with you both.Love Nan & Russell
October 23, 2007 7:42 PM

Anonymous said...
Proud is not a big enough word for the feelings i have for you. You are two kids to absolutely admire.Both of your strength are enormous and show us all how strong your love is ... Treasure you for always, heaps and heaps of hugs, Always,MumYour as Beautiful s the bunch of flowers .......
October 23, 2007 8:29 PM

Aunty Lynz said...
Congratulations, heart felt cuddles and kisses to the happy newly weds Mr and Mrs, thinking of you all love always Aunty Lynz and Graham xxxx
October 23, 2007 9:04 PM

Anonymous said...
night night guys off to bed now ..... what a great day we all had and whata memorable one too !! marriage is very special.... you were at our wedding and now we were at yours ( thank goodness for phones huh LOL ) Sleep well Mr and Mrs Nathan Millar your very first night as husband and wife ...we love you lots,Tarryn,Andy and the girls xoxoxox
October 23, 2007 9:48 PM

Anonymous said...
Hi Nate,Jill,Uncle Jim,Aunty Carol,Damon & Mirelle,Sending love & support to you all. Our thoughts are with you.Love Jodie XXOOXX
October 21, 2007 4:23 PM

Anonymous said...
Hello to you all,,Just letting you know that our thoughts and prayers are with you..God Bless Gary and Maree Eggers xx
October 22, 2007 8:25 AM

Anonymous said...
Dearast nathan,what can i say? I hope you still have that cheeky smile on your face as hard as this must have been to come to terms with. wish i could have been able to see you but im positive we will soon meet again & you have left lots of good memories.I wish i had of contacted you earlier & i hope you know how much you are going to be missed. love you lots Danielle MoirHowzit nate and family,Its been quite hard to hear about whats been going on bro but its good to see you have so many friends and family to be around you at a time like this. Thinking of all the times we used to go for a surf and hang out when we were younger. I know at a time like this you know there are plenty of people including me that care about you and pray for your wellbeing. love you heaps bro Ricco
October 22, 2007 6:50 PM

Anonymous said...
love ya buddy tom
October 23, 2007 4:09 PM

Trev and Ang said...
Nate and jillthank you for being such kind and beautiful People. we have not known you for as long as some but im glad to call you our friends. You use to live in coolum so we didnt see each other all that much except for the occasional poker game piss up or shoot out at the pistal club butWhen you and jill moved into maroochy we started hanging out more often and its been great,Thanks for everything nate your a top bloke. sending all our love Trev and ang
October 23, 2007 4:22 PM

Anonymous said...
Hi 2u all,Great 2hear that, nathan is strong in 'Our God is a awesome God.'Caught up with Laura at church yesterday, we all support her n love her.Betty is always there for her when others are unable 2b.Give our love 2nathan.In God we trust, even when we dont fully understand, we stand in unity with u all,n JesusBe encouraged, in God nothing is wasted.The body of Christ continues to pray for more miricles in this situation, to stand in the gap for our family.Love u soooooooooo much. Kisses n hugs 2u allTom n Sharon x0x0x0x0x0x0x
October 22, 2007 4:52 AM

Anonymous said...
Thank you for the blog site- it gives us a chance to be connected to Nathan and you all in Auss - it gives us a chance to tell you all we love you without feeling intrusive. Haley and I check it every day for updates and pass on the news to others. We all think about you all the time.Love Pauline, Charlie, Sarra, Alishya and Haley
October 22, 2007 7:55 AM

Jess & Rob said...
You guys dont know us but we were blessed to meet Mirelle a few years ago and travel to America with her where she became my room-mate. We wanted to express our deepest sympathy to Mirelle & the rest of her family in such a hard time. We are praying for you all from New Zealand. Warm regards, Jess & Rob
October 22, 2007 4:10 PM

Anonymous said...
Then shall I know ....Not till the loom is silentAnd the shuttles cease to fly,Shall God unroll the canvasAnd explain the reason whyThe dark threads are as needfulIn the weavers' skillful handAs the threads of gold and silverIn the pattern He has planned.
October 23, 2007 5:13 PM

From Jim & Carol

HOT NEWS!
Nathan and Jill are getting married TONIGHT! Carol & I talked about it this morning about 8am. We had spoken often about the love and affection they have for each other. We thought, "Why not try to help them make this dream come true?" Jim spoke to Nathan about the possibility of marriage. Nathan then proposed to Jill. She said yes. He had been planning to ask her for some time, but when he got cancer, he didn't want to let Jill down by leaving her alone. Now it's on for 6pm our time. If you can celebrate wherever you are at that time - please do so. Jim got on the phone after Jill said yes and organised the legal things that have to be done. After many phone calls, he found a very willing and cooperative celebrant. Jill is at the court house now getting a special shortened time licence. There is great excitement in the house!

Update coming tomorrow.

Jim & Carol

From Jim & Carol

Tuesday 9am.
Dear family and friends, thanks for your support. We get such a lift from your comments on this site, your emails, your texts and your generous gifts. We pass all of this on to Nathan.

We have had a bit of a rollercoaster ride over the last 48 hours. On Sunday night and during the early hours of Monday, Nathan appeared to be at a very low point physically. The family spent the night at his bedside. However he rallied strongly yesterday, getting up at 8am to walk to the toilet! Later in the day, he insisted on walking to the front verandah, wearing a "Bring Back The Biff" T shirt one of his friends gave him. He even posed for photographs. His strength astounds us. He can still crack a good joke and often participates in meaningful dialogue, when we least expect it, and the effects of the medication allow.

Today in Maroochydore the weather is lovely. Nathan had a good night. His medication is well balanced for his needs. His pain and distress are being well managed by regular medication. We are all privileged to be able to have this time at home with Nathan. Jill, Damon, Aaron, Mirelle and Carol & Jim share Nathan's around the clock care and he is such a wonderful patient. Laura is at home in Ruakaka and working in Whangarei, which allows Damon to be here. Thanks Laura and HAPPY BIRTHDAY for yesterday!

Love to all from
Jim & Carol & Family

From Jim & Carol

We apologize for not updating the blog, we have had some technical difficulties.

Nathan is resting at home in Maroochydore. He is comfortable and still alert most of the time. He continues to impress us with his strength and courage. He hasn't lost his dry sense of humour either. He even makes jokes about his own situation.

His pain is under control to the extent that Jill & Shiraz (their Labrador) have both been able to get on his bed to give him a cuddle, however so brief.

We have been overwhelmed by the support from family and friends all around the world. This blog has been a great way tp keep in touch with everyone. Please pass it on to those who know Nathan.

Jim & Carol (Nathans Parents)

Latest Comments

Raz said...
To my dearest daddy,I know you are very sick, i come to your bedside every few hours to check up on you. I wish i could jump up and give you big cuddles and a sloppy kiss, but i know that would hurt you. Sometimes you are sleeping so i just sniff your hand. I know you will be leaving this world soon and i just want you to know how much i love you. Please don't worry about mummy as I will always be by her side and i am sure she will let me sleep in her bed so I can keep her warm with cuddles all night. I love you daddy and I'am going to miss you. whoof whoof xxLove Raz
October 19, 2007 12:36 PM

Anonymous said...
Hi All,Thinking of you & sending our Love.XXOOXX Aunty Pauline,Tony & Jodie
October 19, 2007 4:03 PM

Anonymous said...
Sending warmestlove to you allBig hug for NathanFrom Aunty Eleanorxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
October 19, 2007 4:24 PM

Jeanette said...
Hi Nathan, Jill, Jim, Carol, Damon, Aaron and MirelleThis morning I am sitting with the sun streaming in the window and tears streaming down my face after reading Adam's latest blog. I feel such sadness, but also such joy that Nathan knows where he is going - into the arms of his Heavenly Father where there'll be no more pain and suffering. I pray that the wonderful presence of our 'God of all Comfort' will surround each one of you. Also that you all know how much Nathan was loved.God BlessJeanette
October 18, 2007 5:35 AM

Anonymous said...
hi all, just want you to know that we are all with you at this time... we may not be there in body but we are there in spirit ... along side the all of you ... please tell our nathan that we all love him so very much and we are so happy that we were able to share the years that we have with him .... It is so hard to accept still, but as Jilly and Nate have both reasured us all Nathan is going to a beautiful place where there is no pain, no sadness, no anger, only love and happiness and beauty and oh what a blessing to be heading to such an amazing place.We will miss you Nathan but you will be forever in our hearts for always and forever ... you are such a strong man and we will remember you for this forever. All of our love and kisses and all the love we have, Tarryn, Andrew, Jaimee, and Caity Osborne
October 18, 2007 6:41 AM

Anonymous said...
Hi Nathan and Whanau,We love you and we want you to know that our hearts are with you.Anything that we can do over here please let us know.Nothing is impossible for God,we continue to pray for a miracle.We love you all sooooooooo much because you are our whanauLove to you all x0x0x00xTom and Sharon from NZ
October 18, 2007 6:12 PM

Anonymous said...
We send our love Rena & Barrie
October 19, 2007 7:30 AM

Lillian said...
Hi folks this is your cousin from Timaru NZ I am also a friend of Jills Mum. Our thoughts are with you all right now and please take some of my strength and use it when required.This message is from all of the South Island Rellies we are all with you on your journey . God BlessLil Dore (nee Millar)
October 20, 2007 8:23 AM

Photo's & Jill & Nate Support Fund

Thanks to heaps of people for these photos, especially to Nates friend Aaron who i assume took the photos of Jill & Nate camping.

I would also like to point everyone to Denise's post regarding Nates Fund.

HI TO YOU ALL, JILLS MUM HERE,

THANKYOU TO ALL FOR YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT AT THIS TIME. DUE TO THESE TIMES, AS YOU CAN ALL APPRECIATE THIS IS AN EMOTIONAL TIME AND A COSTLY ONE. ON BEHALF OF JILL AND NATE WE ARE ASKING FOR A LITTLE FINANCIAL SUPPORT TO HELP EASE THE BURDEN OF DAILY COSTS. I HAVE A BANK ACC SET UP FOR JILL FOR NZ FRIENDS IF YOU CAN HELP OUT IF POSSIBLE. NO AMOUNT IS TOO SMALL ANY HELP WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED.

ACC NUMBER NATIONAL BANK TIMARU 060889 0269804 00

THIS IS A LITTLE WAY OF HELPING BUT AS YOU KNOW THIS WILL BE MASSIVE TO JILL AND NATETHANKS TO YOU ALL JILLS MUM

Nathan Andrew Millar

Nate is now entering the last few days of his life upon this world, as requested by him. He has been in a lot of pain for the last 2 weeks and has been struggling to get home to be comfortable for when he passes. Nate has requested not to be kept alive just for the sake of living for a few extra days, but would like to be able to fall asleep and go quietly and peacefully. Currently he has not been able to take any fluids or drink and is getting himself ready to go. Nate is being medicated so that until he finally sleeps he will not be in pain.

Nate has enjoyed the last few weeks being able to say his goodbyes, and for people to show their support. He loves everyone and is happy knowing how many people love him. Nate wanted to write on the blog but realised he would only say thank-you to everyone and that he loves them, which he has done already and knows everyone understands.


Jill, Carol, Jim, Mirelle, Aaron & Damon are all keeping a bedside vigil by Nate so that he is surrounded by love from his family at all times. It has also been a request that everyone please dont call them as it is hard to talk to everyone, and they want to spend the last moments with Nate, not on the phone.

We all wish Nathan a great sleep tonight and day tomorrow, and hopefully for him a non-painful rest into eternity where he can just let himself go and be at peace. Our thoughts are always with Nate, and our hearts will all be thinking of you.

Comments from today

Anonymous said...
that was great !! so good to celebrate the good times :) thanks for sharing !!! xoxoxoxTarryn and Andy
October 16, 2007 10:49 PM

Anonymous said...
SUP NATE AND JILLIAN, Tony here dont no wot to write xzactly but id just like to say that i love yous both and my thoughts are with yous both. im hoping to b over soon nate and mayb try steel you away ifya up to it and do wot we always talkt about.. getting a crate ov passion pop haha and headen down to the hunt and make them cork the lovely bottles 4 us haha all my love Tony nd Lucy X thats a big kiss 4 the both of yas
October 17, 2007 4:59 PM

Anonymous said...
Hey cuz, Jake here, ive been thinkin bowt u alot l8ly ae, just not 2 gud at putn thoughts into words, the only reason i havnt got round 2 playn u in a game of tennis is coz im scared you would beat me!haha, i caught up with Tristan on the w-end and he sends his love and is also thinkn bowt u.much love, Jake
October 17, 2007 5:20 PM

kellee said...
hey cuz, loved the video!!! had a few laughs and thought to myself "thats my cousin...sheesh" lol thinking of u lots at this time!!love kellz & soraya xoxoxo
October 17, 2007 6:26 PM

Anonymous said...
Hey guys thinking of you lots and lots :) all our love, Tarryn, Andy and the girls
October 17, 2007 6:44 PM

Anonymous said...
HI TO YOU ALL, JILLS MUM HERE, THANKYOU TO ALL FOR YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT AT THIS TIME.DUE TO THESE TIMES, AS YOU CAN ALL APPRECIATE THIS IS AN EMOTIONAL TIME AND A COSTLY ONE. ON BEHALF OF JILL AND NATE WE ARE ASKING FOR A LITTLE FINANCIAL SUPPORT TO HELP EASE THE BURDEN OF DAILY COSTS.I HAVE BANK ACC SET UP FOR JILL FOR NZ FRIENDS IF YOU CAN HELP OUT IF POSSIBLE.NO AMOUNT IS TOO SMALL ANY HELP WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATEDACC NUMBER NATIONAL BANK TIMARU060889 0269804 00THIS IS A LITTLE WAY OF HELPING BUT AS YOU KNOW THIS WILL BE MASSIVE TO JILL AND NATETHANKS TO YOU ALL JILLS MUM
October 17, 2007 6:49 PM


Beck Crook said...
Hi Nathan, really glad to hear you are at home with all your loved one's around you!! Jill sounds like a wonderful strong person!! It's been many yrs since i have seen you but i can remember having some fun times up at your place and also when we lived in Ikamatua!! I am thinking of you both and all of the family & friends. Big hugs all my love Becks xxooxx

Special Video Presentation

Here is a video that was made for Nates 23rd Birthday. There are a lot of good memories and great friends included in this so please enjoy. Sorry if the size of the video is too small but we are limited by what we can upload.

Comments for Nate from Today

Anonymous said...
YAH !! So good to hear you at home and happier ....Sounds like you all having a pretty good time bbqs and all LOL You better be cranking that thing out when im over there NOT LONG NOW !!! hey just wanted to send my love and Jaimee would like to say a quick word .... UncleNate ......dhjsdfhjdfhjdfjksdfjksdoooookjjjjlooooooooooooppklpall our love and kisses Tarryn, Andy and the girls xoxoxox
October 16, 2007 6:26 AM

Carol Millar said...
Nathan was happy that we could all chill out and enjoy being together at the house. He has a bed set up in the lounge. Jill has the room set up nicely. He is being given IV fluids, twice a day, to replace all the fluid he is losing from his liver and abdomen. He is comfortable with regular morphine. It is great that we are able to care for him in this way. He is a wonderful patient. Carol and Jim
October 16, 2007 6:42 AM

sam stevens said...
he man sam stevens here again great to see ya back home thinking about ya heaps man take it easy.
October 16, 2007 10:01 AM

Jeanette said...
Hi Nathan & Jill, Jim & Carol, Damon, Aaron and Mirelle,I'm so pleased you're home Nathan where you can be more relaxed and comfortable. We're still praying for all of you. Laura is doing really well back here - she's a lovely girl. Betty has been spending time with her and helping her tidy up the garden on her days off.God Bless you allLove Jeanette
October 16, 2007 4:30 PM

Anonymous said...
HI GUYS,Great news, you are home Nate! Love to all over there. Lotsa Love Jodie
October 16, 2007 4:30 PM

Clare & Michele said...
Hi Nathan and everyone, we are very excited to hear you are home Nate, so can only imagine how you must be feeling. Nothing like being amongst the ones you love and in your own home, not forgetting Razz too! Thinking of you every day. Love you guys. Michele and Clare. XX
October 16, 2007 6:00 PM

nan&russell said...
hi nate,jill,carol,jim& famiy.mum(your aunty gwen)has been keeping us in victoria up to date on your progress over the past 12 mths.our thoughs are with you at this time.looking at some of your photos i could see granddad millar in you.all our love nan & russell parsons
October 16, 2007 8:49 PM

Levi said...
hey guys and girls its levi here, love to you all especial milla sax, love you bro i'll never say that ever again starting now, sweet. just at matt's they say hey:)you've always been there as my old arch enemy nah;)But more soas an awsome mate and brother. Just been looking at all the old royal rangers photo's. I really remember that time you all were cruizing on the tracktor, and we started the most massive mission egg, flour and strait older versesthe younger fight and nathan atkins, steven smyth and i we made it to the farm house to realise we were still being tailed. We made it to the quarry before you, matt jarrod and cropley caught up. I almost got caught by a net wielding cropley, but i managed to get accross a cow shit infested swamp, only to be half drowned by matt. Meanwhile nathan was trudging through thick goarse to get away from jarrod you and cropley must have gotten steven down. Anyway mean old days, i know to most of you out there that seemed a bit neggative, but that was a really cool time in my life i'll always remember. love you bro will be on here from time to time peace
October 15, 2007 3:46 PM

Anonymous said...
Dear Jill and Nathan,Just a special message to let you know that we are thinking of you everyday. Nate although we have never met, I hear so many special things about you, you are a very courageous young man and Jill, you are a very strong, caring and loving young lady. Our hearts go out to you both, just take one day at a time and make the most of every moment. Our thoughts are also with your family, and Amanda, take careLove Aunty Judith, Grant and your Cousin Lauren.
October 15, 2007 5:05 PM

Aunty Lynz said...
To let you know we're thinking of you every single dayAnd send you hope & comfort as the Angels guide your wayWe wish that we could visit youto show how much we careBut you're in our thoughts & ourhearts because you are so dearTake strength from our thoughts & love from our heartsAs you help each other through And remember that we love youjust because you're youLove always Jill & Nate, your buddyAunty Lynz & Graham xx
October 16, 2007 4:25 PM

Anonymous said...
Heya Nathan,It's your cousin Alishya, i love you. I wish i could give you a great big hug and kiss. All my love to you Nathan. Lots of love, Alishya Chircop xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
October 16, 2007 6:42 PM

Nate Is Home!

Today has been a great day for Nate, Jill, Jim & Carol, Damon, Aaron, Mirelle & Raz. Nate was allowed home from the hopsital today.

He is set up with a hospital bed, chair, monitors and anything else he needs to make him more comfortable. He has been for a fair few walks today and the trip home has exhausted him a fair bit, but he has still managed to have a great chat with everyone, and even give Shiraz a pat.

Tonight was Damons next BBQ of the month, and was a great evening together. We were all chatting about how good it is for Nate to be home, and how much more comfortable it is to visit him. During a couple of games of pool, making Raz chase her ball, and a great BBQ we were reminiscing about all things Nate.

Mandy had a story about when she first arrived in Australia and Nate had to pick her up late at night after work. She was standing out the front of a shop waiting for Nate to pick her up, when these 2 drunk guys started annoying her. Just as she started to get annoyed, she noticed Nate pulling up in the car, and Nate was watching Mandy and the drunks with a look only a protective brother would give. He opened the car door and asked Mandy if everything was ok, when she replied yes he said "I thought I would have to get out and slap them with my jandle"

We wish Nate a great sleep this evening without the stress of dealing with Dr's and Nurses constantly checking up on him.

Photos from this weekend.

Here are some more photos i have received from Mirelle, Aaron, Jeanette & Kev, and Clare Stanbridge. Some of the photos are from Nates childhood, ranging to the present.
He was getting a back massage today and was quite alert and enjoying the company. He is really looking forward to going home tomorrow afternoon sometime. He still wont be up for visitors but atleast he will be comfortable in his home surroundings with Jill & Nates dog Shiraz there too.

From Jill

Jill said...
To all our friends & family, thank you from Nathan and I for all the love, support & miracles from you.I apologise for not replying sooner but my brain has been a bit fried & I can't concentrate on writing and crazy weird things - Really exhausted.I've been trying to come to terms with my angel been taken away from me!It's the hardest thing in the world and still don't want to believe it!!!!I don't know what I'm going to do in Life without him and how I will survive. As Natey said, "we make the best team," and I said, "that's why I'm gonna struggle cos I'm not gonna have the part that makes us the strongest."Nate's my best friend in the world and I know I'm never gonna find a friend as special!! As for how much I'm in love with my babe, my chest is gonna feel empty. My heart is going to be taken with Nathan too. He has filled my heart with so much love that I've always said to him, "It's bigger than the world and even the universe!" It's the hardest thing to explain!!!I want to say to my baby, "You have made my life complete, I fell in love with you the first time I looked into your beautiful eyes" (cos damn they are HOT!!! - Damn Sexy!!hehe). Nate is a Hotty - It's been hard to keep the girls away hehe. I couldn't keep my hands off him, the poor boy, he couldn't keep me away for one second, I just want to spend every second with him forever.I knew from the first day I met him that he was an "angel" - my angel.I love you baby & you have made me the person I am, I wouldn't be this happy and alive if I never did!!!I feel so lucky to have all the support from Nathan's family over here and all our friends & family. I want to say Thanks to my Brain (AKA) Aaron - He has been incredible and I wouldn't be this strong without him - You have been my Rock!!! Mirelle - is beautiful,you're my sis and Damon & Matt have all saved my life.I love having us all together, I feel like your are my brothers and sister. Jim & Carol AKA Dad & Mum - I love you so much, Thank you for bringing me such a beautiful love into my life. I just love all Nathan's family so much!!! You Rock.Adam & Mandy - have been AWWWWESOME! Thank you for creating this awesome blog Adam. Nate & I thank you for the chance to have everyone with us in this hard time. Nathan is a brother to my sister Mandy. She has spent the whole time that Nathan and I have been together, around him. I love you moo so much!Nathan & I have been together coming up 5yrs. It's been the best 5yrs of my life...if only I found him sooner!!! I love you Baby forever and can't wait to be with you again.I want everyone to know that Nathan is going to be fine. God actually paralyzed me the other night, I think my heart & my lungs even stopped!!!, and he showed me looking down on Nathan and I was watching Nate run up a beautiful mountain through the clouds and I looked up and saw God and he said that he was helping me guide him home to him. Nathan looked soooo damn handsome too, he didn't look sick, and he looked the happiest I've ever seen him!!!I feel so grateful to God to have been able to see were my boy's going - I think he was getting annoyed at me cos I kept yelling, "Show me your face or you're not taking him!!!" hehehe, So he bloody well did!!I am taking Nate home to New Zealand to Rest where his heart is at Waipu Cove. I didn't need to ask him because I knew, but I told him and he's happy and I am too because I know he is never going to leave and we'll be together forever!!! I love you angel XXXX
October 13, 2007 2:57 PM

Comments From Today

Anonymous said...
hey nate its your cousin haley here again i just wanted to let you know that all the chircops have been thinking of you and just want you to know that you mean so much to all of us. its good to hear that your improving to go home. we send you our love over and over again have a good night!! xoxoxoxo
October 13, 2007 4:07 PM

Anonymous said...
HI guys :-) Been thinking of you lots today .... Was really really awesome to talk to Nate on Thursday morning and Thursday night.... It sooo nice to chat to Nate as i havent been to see him and its very hard to accept that i cant be there yet BUT i WILL be there this week !! Andy and i are talking non stop about arrving and heading to Jills and Nates. No doubt im going to annoy the crap outa Nate and talk his ears off:-) I just cant wait to give you both kisses and cuddles and as i say talk and talk and talk..... Love you both so much .... Being this far away from you all as been the hardest thing i have ever had to get through but as i say my thoughts have been with you all week ... It was good to chat to Andy when he got home, it helped me to understand alot more.... LOVE YOU ALL SOOOOOOO MUCH and MISS YOU SOOOOOOO MUCH, kisses for Uncle Nate and Aunty Jilly from the kids ... Love Tarryn, Andy and the girls

Anonymous said...
gidday all,as soon as I un-sprain my typing finger, will send you an email.Nathan, dont let ya brothers any where near the ice-cream, there be bugger-all left for anyone.Melv.
October 13, 2007 11:08 AM

Clare & Michele said...
Hi Nate, Jill & family,Hope this works, posting this up! Love all the photos that are on this and have found some old Rangers ones to add to them too. Such good times, special memories forever. Surf Camps, Bonfires/Potential Infernos(!), Challenges. We will always be feral Northlanders deep down! Thinking and praying for you all so much. Thanks for the great times when we were over in August, that BK was so good ah? (Clare). We (Stanbridges) are all with you in the form of Matthew, as much as he loves you Nate, we all do. Bless you all, Clare & Michele
October 13, 2007 2:42 PM

Anonymous said...
hi Nate and Jill and family. I went around to Puhi's place today and told her the sad news. The two of us want to send our love and support to you. We were talking about all the mischief we got up to when we worked with Nate in NZ. Like flicking rubber bands at random people. Sticking everything down to peoples desks so they can't use them and other games that seem silly but were wicked funny. All our love Alex and Puhi

Anonymous said...
Hello Nathan, you don't know me but I met your parents through a friend in Israel, it was good to meet your Dad at Kibbutz Baram. Anyway I thought I would send a message with the meaning of your name. Nathan means Gift of God, the language it comes from is Hebrew and the Spiritual meaning is Victorious! The scripture attached to your name is 1 Cor 15:57 But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.Looking forward to hearing about your full recovery. God Bless You. Chris Joy

Friday Night

Last night Mandy & I went for our visit. It was probably the best visit we have had at the hospital yet.

Nate has had a couple of tubes removed which has made him much more comfortable and able to do some things on his own. His security licence also showed up, so we put that in the frame with his security certificate.

We had been there for about 15mins when Jim & Carol showed up. We all had great conversations and sharing memories of various topics. Some that were mentioned were Nates car accident into the mangroves (he wasn't driving, he made sure we knew that), a family joke that i will share with you later, and the fact his brothers convinced him to eat cat food (always fun to play on little brothers). We were also talking to Nate about this blog and the amount of support and messages he has received. He does appreciate it all.

The family joke was told during a conversation about things that happened when Nate was younger (i think 4 years old?). Nate came out and said "What has 4 legs and cant walk?" I for one was stumped, but the answer had us al laughing, "An upside down horse". Can it be anymore logical?

After we left the hospital we visited Jill at home for a bit. Damon was busy on the BBQ cooking everyones dinner, who included Nates friends from the Gold Coast. Matt & Damon then went up to visit Nate.

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Shannell said...
Hey Nate, the old-school pics are hilarious...cant wait to give Matt s**t for them too! Reading Aarons blog was hard, but it has prompted me to write this blog...I just want you to know that I wish I had more time to get to know you, although the few times we have spent hanging out were awesome and the stories from Matt I feel like I know you heaps already. You have really inspired me (and Matt too) to do as much as possible with our lives and just LIVE IT ! This is really hard to write, but I know that Matt and probably yourself will be thinking...you WONT be forgotten at our wedding as you were going to be a Big part in it, and we will make sure that you still will be!! Ok I have said it now and it was harder than I thought (bawling- sorry). Oh and you really should've patented your "Man-Tails", haha, we are going to claim them now as "Millar-Tails"...haha...will have a few to you when Matt gets back!Anyway much love to you, Jill and family...xx Shannell
October 12, 2007 6:09 AM

Anonymous said...
Hi Nate, Jill, Aunty Carol, Uncle Jim, Mirelle, Aaron & Damon....I am sending all our love from the Sth Is. You are all in our thoughts and hearts and we love you all so so much. I was talking to Tristan last night and he and Misty pass on there love to you. Was also speaking to Dad and you are all always in his thoughts..Stay strong all our love Becks and Family. xxooxx
October 12, 2007 6:55 AM

Beck Crook said...
Nate forgot to say...love the photos on this awesome blog site!!! and i can't belive how much you look like my Tristan!!! anyway lots of love xxooxx
October 12, 2007 11:37 AM

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October 12, 2007 8:58 PM

Anonymous said...
Hi Nate, Pete here. Just wanted to let you know I’m thinking of you at the moment. In the two odd years I’ve been here in Australia I haven't met to many blokes that I’ve liked that much. You are one of the most genuine, decent guys that I can be proud to call a mate. Yourself and jilly are without a doubt, two of the strongest people i've met in my life. I hope Tim, Liv and myself will be able to come up and see you two when you get home. All my love and best whishes.Pete
October 11, 2007 10:30 PM

Anonymous said...
TO MY GIRLS AND MY BOYSFOOTPRINTSONE NIGHT I HAD A DREAMI DREAMT I WAS WALKING ALONG THE BEACH AND GOD AND ACROSS THE SKY FLASHED SCENES FROM MY LIFEFOR EACH SCENE I NOTICED TWO SETS OF FOOTPRINTS IN THE SAND, ONE BELONGED TO ME AND THE OTHER TO GOD.WHEN THE LAST SCENE OF MY LIFE FLASHED BEFORE US, I LOOKED BACK AT THE FOOTPRINTS IN THE SAND.I NOTICED THAT AT TIMES ALONG THE PATH OF LIFE THERE WAS ONLY ONE SET OF FOOTPRINTS.I ALSO NOTICED THAT I HAPPENED AT THE VERY LOWEST AND SADDEST TIMES IN MY LIFE.THIS REALLY BOTHERED ME AND I QUESTIONED GOD ABOUT IT.GOD, YOU SAID THAT ONCE I DECIDED TO FOLLOW YOU YOU WOULD WALK WITH ME ALL THE WAY BUT I NOTICED THAT DURING THE MOST TROUBLESOME TIMES IN MY LIFE THERE IS ONLY ONE SET OF FOOTPRINTS.I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY IN TIMES WHEN I NEEDED YOU MOST YOU WOULD LEAVE ME. GOD REPLIED MY PRECIOUS, PRECIOUS CHILD, I LOVE YOU AND I WOULD NEVER NEVER LEAVE YOU DURING YOUR TIMES OF TRIALS AND SUFFERING.WHEN YOU SEE ONLY ONE SET OF FOOTPRINTS, IT WAS THEN THAT I CARRIED YOU.HEAPS OF LOVE MUM
October 12, 2007 6:22 AM

Jodie Martin said...
Hi Nate,Jill,Uncle Jim,Aunty Carol,Damon,Aaron & Mirelle - Jodie here.Just wanted to send our love & support to you all.All of my family (Mum & Jurgen, Dad & Shelagh, Tony,Tracey,Cody & Kate) are thinking of you all constantly with much love & well wishes. We hope you are able to go home today Nathan & have some special time with your family & friends. Lotsa Love to you all!!! XXXXXXX
October 12, 2007 4:54 PM

Jarrod Atkins said...
Hi Nathan and family.I wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.Nate you really are a courageous young man and im happy that you are surrounded by your family at this time.Love, Jarrod Atkins
October 12, 2007 6:23 PM

More Pics

Today i received 3 emails from people with pictures they wanted to share. Mirelle, Tanja, Kev & Jeanette. Thanks so much for these, they are obviously very special memories.

Comments For Today

Anonymous said...
hi nate and jilly,Its crumpy bitch roz here.Glad to hear things are improving.Slow and steady wins the race nate.jilly there was an article in the Australian newspaper about a liver specialist in Melbourne that does laser treatment on tumors.It was 12mths ago though but thought u might want to check it out if u can.Keep your chin up guys.This blog thing is great.Love yas miss yas.grumpy bitch roz
October 11, 2007 9:26 AM

Mirelle Millar said...
Hi! Firstly on behalf of Nate I have to thank everyone for their love and support and messages sent. I keep him up to date with well wishes and he asks me each time if I can say "Thank you" for him. I have just printed of todays messages & can't wait to read them to him tomorrow.I spent this afternoon & evening with Nathan...when I informed him he was now stuck just with me & my dribble...he asked me for the tv remote with a cheeky smile.We had a nice afternoon...ice-cream, jelly and custard...washed down with fruit juice (which resulted in what Nate called "burkups"...burps & hickups...hahaha. And of course, Nate was impressed with my amazing nursing skills...as I stood there daydreaming and leaving him hanging looking at the spoon of ice-cream I was holding for him..lingering mid-air..."rell..." All jokes aside, we are all so proud of Nate and his amazing courage, honesty, consideration for others, politeness, and most of all LOVE. xoxo Mirelle
October 10, 2007 11:05 PM

Aaron Millar said...
Hi everybody. Aaron here. Firstly I would like to say a big thank you to everyone for the love you are sending our way. It is great to know that so many people are thinking of us. I wanted to let you all know that as much as it is hard to accept or understand, Nathan will not be with us for much longer. Currently he is fighting an infection, recovering from a major surgery and gaining strength in order to be able to leave the hospital so he can be at home with his friends and family before he leaves this world. The cancer has progressed aggresively and there are no options left for treatment. Nathan has been amazing during this difficult time and is at peace with what is happening. He is so strong and this is really a reflection on the sort of person he is. He is amazing and Jill has been a tower of strength for us all. Nathan is very lucky to have her as his best friend and partner. Continue to think of us and send more messages via this website (this is the best way to get in touch) and we will ensure that Nathan receives them. Please understand if we are not able to contact everyone, but know that we are reading your messages and really appreciate them.lots of love, Aaron.
October 10, 2007 11:29 PM

Thinking of you all in Germany said...
Hallo Nathan, I just tried to think of how long ago it is since we met. it´s really 9 years ago when I stayed at your house as an exchange student. Even though we had some different ideas of what was cool and right etc at that time I really love to look back to that time... I was really happy to hear from you over facebook a couple of weeks ago. Also, I was glad to see you and Jill and your friends (please say hi to Mat) and family (hallo to all of you)all happily together. And I have to admit, that I was really shocked when I read that you had to get back to hospital. By reading the blogs though, I realize that you are sooo brave and that you have so many friends and a wonderful family around you. I am thinking of all of you a lot and in my thoughts I am with you. I send my love to you guys around the globe from Germany to Australia.Love, Tanja
October 11, 2007 7:36 AM

Jeanette said...
Hi again Nathan, all your family and also to MatIt's such a blessing to hear of the wonderful time you as a family are all having together in spite of the circumstances.We continue to pray and send our love to you all.I posted a few older photos from the Wigmore archives today. (Sorry Mirelle you can deal with me later)We have so many memories of you growing up here in Ruakaka and of when you stayed with us when mum and dad went to Israel - taking you and Justin op shopping for a suit for the school ball (what you didn't know was that when I washed it the lining shrunk and I was in a big panic fixing it while you were at school), picking glass out of your head after a certain mate ended up in the mangroves at Oakleigh on the way home from church, you burning around in your mum and dad's red car to deliver your papers and the list could go on.Blessings to you allLove Jeanette
October 11, 2007 10:08 AM

melissa said...
Hi Nate, Just sending our love, thoughts and prayers to YOU and ur family. It's a blessing to here u are surrounded by loved ones and have lots of support. Its great to hear ur cracking jokes and up to ya old tricks with the nurses. Keep smiling hat cheeky smile bud. We are with your in spirit and heart champ.Lots of luvfrom the sunshine state-QLD!Melissa, Shane & the Atkins crew.xxxoooxxxoooxxKia kahaLots of love fromMelissa, Shane & the Atkins crewxxxoooxooxoxxoxo
October 11, 2007 4:03 PM